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The Dark World of Prostitution

Kamini

Infinity and Beyond
Posting Freak
Yet another long thread :facepalm:. Is she crazy? She is definitely crazy (that is what you are thinking, I know, I am a psychic :holiday:).

Hello folks!

If you don't have time or not into long threads, then I suggest you skip this one.

I am writing this thread because of two reasons.

The first reason being the kind of abuse every girl faces in our chatrooms. If you are a non-VIP girl you might have got pvt messages from random people, offering you money to have sex or calling you a prostitute and if you are a VIP, you get abused on the wall itself. Sometimes even when you say you are not a prostitute and deny the money, they keep bugging you and start to hurl abuses at your family till you block them permanently. I don't have a problem with people thinking of me as a prostitute at their first glance in the chatrooms, the problem occurs when they start to abuse me just because I said no. Just because someone is a prostitute or one thinks as a prostitute, doesn't give anyone the right to abuse her. So I just want to change some people's views on prostitutes by stating some facts and stuff.

The second reason being I have my own experience encountering a prostitute (who became my best friend) a few years ago and I want to share it.

I suggest people to keep their religious views aside for a while and let's take a humanitarian and logical approach to this discussion. By doing so I want you to think about a few questions.

Let's exclude Gold-diggers, Professional Escorts, and Call Girls (at least for a while) from this discussion.

Let's discuss real prostitution. The kind of prostitution run by very filthy pimps and criminals (brothels) and backed by politicians. If you ever searched about prostitution in India, you might have heard of a few areas. The very popular Kamathipura (Mumbai), Sonagachi (Kolkata), Budhwar Peth (Pune), Itwari (Nagpur) to name a few. These are the places in which illegal activities happen under the table unofficially (although owning a brothel is a serious crime in India). These brothels serve as long-term money producing machines for many who not only receive money but also free services from them.

Facts about prostitution in India:
1)Prostitution is actually legal in India but there are so many laws related to it which makes it illegal in most cases.
2)At least 60% of the women in prostitution are trafficked and forced into it.
3)At least 70% of the sex workers from brothels have STIs (So I suggest you don't go to them, at least not without precautions)
4)Most of them don't have any knowledge regarding the dangers of STIs or simply don't care.
5)Most of them are married and have children.
6)Only 10-15% percent of women are in prostitution because of their choice. Rest are either forced into it or in it for money because of their financial requirements.
7)At least 15% are underage.


Not let's discuss a few questions.

1)Is being a prostitute a choice?
Let's define what is a choice first. A choice is a decision you make when you have many options and you are not forced to pick one. You make it on your own not because someone or some situation forces you to, your choice comes from freedom. If you go by that definition mostly it is a "No". Because most of them in India didn't choose to be a sex worker, so one must know that they do that out of no choice (So if anyone comes across a prostitute, instead of hating them or hurling abuses at them, if you can help them to get out of brothels or prostitution, that will be great). Having said that it can be a choice (just like being a pornstar is a choice).

2)Are there any benefits because of prostitutes?
There are only 3 benefits because of sex workers as I see.
1. Many people who can't have sex with their spouses, unsatisfied with their spouses will go to them and satisfy their desire, instead of divorcing their spouse (Over 50% of the divorce cases are between sexually unsatisfied partners in India).
2. Prostitutes are helping in a way to control rapes (If there were no prostitutes, we would be seeing more rape cases and child abuse).
3. It serves as a way of venting out sexual frustration if a person is unmarried or widowed.

3)Why prostitution considered wrong in society?
Well, have you ever heard the term "supply on demand"? If you are visiting a brothel then you are creating a demand for prostitutes. So pimps to produce prostitutes, they kidnap and human traffic little girls all over the country, then force them into prostitution or persuade women with financial need into it. So you are indirectly destroying someone's life by creating demand. With no demand, there will be no supply (So I suggest you do your part and stay away from brothels to cut the demand). And prostitution in a way, destroying families too. Because some people get addicted to brothels and waste their money on them. When their spouse figures about their secret encounters, feuds and divorces happen. It is also acting as a medium to spread STIs. So that is why prostitution is considered wrong.

4)What should we do with prostitutes?
We don't have to look down on them, not necessarily because prostitutes are just like us, they are human beings too and most of them are not doing it out of their choice. They were forced into it, so one must try to help them out of prostitution if possible. And just because they have sex for money doesn't make them any less human than you or make them any evil. Let me give an example here. You pay your maid to do your house chores but you never look down on them or abuse them for keeping your house clean, right? Then why abuse prostitutes for offering their services? If you are using their services, have fun, and leave them be. No need to look down on them or abuse them. If they deny their services for your offer then leave them be. If they abuse you, just leave from there because you can't win in an argument with them. If you don't want their services, just leave them be. Just because someone is a prostitute they don't lose their humanity and human rights. And because they have sex for money doesn't give anyone the right to abuse them or rape them if they say no. No means no for any woman regardless of whether she is a virgin, married, or a prostitute. And not all prostitutes are bad, they are just like any human being.

5)How to abolish brothels in India?
This one is for you to answer. I want you to share your views in the comments.


A short documentary on Kamathipura prostitutes:


Optional reading:

My encounter with a prostitute (a former prostitute and my best friend):


A few years ago, when I was 19, I was sitting at a bus stop waiting for my bus to reach home. That is when I met R. At first, I didn't notice her but after some time, out of boredom I took my eyes off my book and looked around. She was waiting for her bus just like me. She didn't look rich but she was fair, a very beautiful and voluptuous married woman. She sat in front of me at the bus stop, just a few rows away. I figured she was crying silently. So after a moment of hesitation, I put my book inside my bag and approached her to know her problem. I sat beside her for 2 minutes, I didn't talk to her but after some time I put my hand on her leg and asked her "Are you okay?". She got surprised and after a moment replied "I am ok". I further asked her why she was crying. She replied "Family problems". I could see a bruise on the back of the shoulder so I asked her "did your husband hit you or something?". She said no and told me that her husband loves her so much and she further said they had a love marriage against their elder's wish. So both of them got disowned by their families because of their inter-faith marriage. She said she got 2 kids, a 5-year-old girl, and a 3-year-old boy. Then I further asked her about the bruise because it looked like a hand slap.

She was hesitant at first, so I assured her that I would help her if I can be of any help. So she told me that her client hit her. I got a bit suspicious, so I asked her "What client?". Then she revealed to me that she was a prostitute. I got stuck for a bit on hearing that because, since childhood, I was told that prostitutes are nasty people by society. So I got a bit disgusted but the quirky side in me wanted to know about her more and her lifestyle, so I started asking questions. She then told me about her situation. Her husband got cancer, he was suffering and got seriously ill, so he couldn't work regularly. So to support her family she chose prostitution. She said she was doing it for 8 months, slept with around 30 people, and earned a decent amount to pay the medical bills of her husband. She also said her husband doesn't know about her work. She said she would always tell him that she was visiting friends to borrow money when he was at home, so he wouldn't get disheartened. I asked her "Where do you keep your kids while working?". She said that she leaves her children with a neighbour who was a widowed old lady. She told me that she saved money for her husband unbeknownst to him. She told me how she gets her clients from nearby villages and how much they pay her.

In between the conversation, she took a good look at me from top to toe and asked me "Do you need money too? You look beautiful and fair. You can earn a decent amount. If you need any clients I can hook you up". At this point, I seriously got offended and got furious but I controlled myself and simply said "No, thanks" as it was a bus stop. She sensed I became uncomfortable and she apologized. She explained to me why she asked me that question. She said for a threesome for an entire day, some clients pay a hefty amount (in lakhs, especially for beautiful and young college girls). She asked me so that if I had any interest, I could accompany her to those clients so that she and I could earn more money. Although I was angry, I felt really bad for her. I wanted to help her but I couldn't as I was just a student and cancer treatment requires a lot of money. So I wanted to help her by giving some insight regarding STIs and safety precautions. To my surprise, she had good knowledge about them already. So I asked about her education. She said she holds a degree in Agriculture. She also said she fell in love when she was in college as her husband studied in the same college.

As we were talking my bus arrived and to my surprise again, she got on the same bus. We sat together. She was very nice to me and I tried to make her smile throughout our journey. I suggested a medical loan to her but she said she already took it and used most of that money. So I didn't have anything to say, we further continued our conversation and got to know each other better. She said she didn't wanna be a prostitute and said she would leave it after getting sufficient money for medical bills. We became closer in those few minutes of the journey. Her stop came, so we exchanged our numbers before she left. We used to talk on the phone and I used to give her emotional and moral support. After a few weeks, she stopped calling me, so I called her many times to know what happened. She didn't answer my calls for the next 2 months but one day she called me. Unfortunately, her husband died and she was very depressed and cried for more than an hour on the phone. So I took a decision, I told my parents that I was gonna visit a friend for a few days. After throwing some tantrums they agreed.

I reached R's house unannounced (I suggest people to don't take these stupid decisions because they can get you in trouble, I was lucky that R was a nice person but how would anyone know? She could have done a million things to me). She was devastated, she hugged me on seeing me first. She took me inside her rented house, it was small but it was neat. There were not so many things in the house, I saw her husband's photo hanging on the wall. She cried a lot, so I consoled her. I helped her with the house chores and asked her about her work. She said she left it after her husband's sudden death. I felt happy because she left that profession. I played with her kids and asked her why didn't she go back to her family. She said they would never accept her kids. She was living off the money she saved which was running out day by day and she had to pay up the debt to the bank. So I made a few phone calls to my friends and relatives and asked them if they had any job. Fortunately, after a bit of persuasion, one of my relatives was kind enough to provide her a job as a sales-girl and a nearby portion to their home for low rent. She felt happy because I was there for her. I gave her a semblance of hope.

I stayed with her for 4 days. In those 4 days, I learned a lot about R and I met this sweet old lady R mentioned at the bus stop, who took care of the kids while she was working. The old lady was really nice, she didn't know about R's work but she always offered to take care of the kids, the kids like the old lady and she helped R a lot, in turn, R used to help the lady by washing her clothes and stuff. I figured R's former clients were still calling her so I made her change the SIM then I came back home. I helped her to move out after a few weeks to her new place near my relative's home unbeknownst to my parents. I didn't tell my relatives about her past profession. She worked for them as a sales-girl for around 9 months then she went on to become a receptionist at a nearby hotel. While working, she used to take tailoring classes to become a tailor. She quit the receptionist post after 1.5 years, after frequently getting sexual harassment from a new hotel manager (An asshole for sure). 4 months after that she opened her own tailor shop with the support of two other women to support her family.

I used to visit her at least 4/5 times a year. In one of such visits, I introduced her to my close childhood friend J. J is a nerd, shy but cute and open-minded guy. He stays near my relative's home so I introduced him to her. J and I took R and her kids to a movie. R definitely didn't see any movie in theatres at least for 3 years, so we actually forced her to come with us. She felt so happy after the movie and J became a friend to R. After that J used to help R if she needed any. I don't know what happened but after a few months, J told me that he loves R and doesn't know how to express it to her. He was afraid of rejection. I knew that J doesn't know about R's past profession. J knew R is 6 years older than him. I saw it as a great opportunity for R to start a new life as I knew J was a very good guy. So I called R and told her about J's feelings. She said J wouldn't love her if he realizes her past. She also said that she doesn't have any feelings for J and asked me even if she were to accept J's proposal, would he be able to accept her children? I asked her why she wants to tell her past to J. She said that J has to know all the truth so that she can decide whether J can be with her or not.

So I planned a meet and called J and R out for lunch. J expressed his feelings to her after a bit of persuasion from me. R told about her past life as a prostitute to J. Truth to be told, J freaked out and left without saying a word leaving me and R. R then told me, now that J knows her past, he would never accept her. I felt really bad that day. But to our surprise, J called me after 3 weeks and told me that he was ready to accept R and her kids. J asked R out for dinner then proposed R again and this time, R accepted his proposal. J told his parents about his love only to get a no as an answer. But love changes people, right? So the shy and timid J actually stood against his parents and after so many weeks of arguments, his parents finally agreed. J's parents don't know about R's past life and J likes to keep it that way. They both got married last year in a registrar office, I was so happy that day because two of my close friends became one.

In the first few weeks of marriage, J's parents didn't like R and were ashamed of her. R endured all of that with J's support and never gave up. Then something happened (I am pretty sure God took pity on R's life). J's mother fell from the stairs and fractured her leg. R helped her emotionally and supported her in all the things which earned R, her respect. They both got close after that. Now they are one happy family and she is pregnant now. J says he is very happy with R. R tells me how J brings her flowers every weekend and takes her and the kids out every month. I used to think these kinds of stories only exist in the movies or fairy tales but I am glad that I could witness one in real. I still hang out with R, she became more confident after her marriage, she is a woman of power and she is a good dancer too. She taught me so many things in life, she was there when I got my heartbroken, she was there when I was feeling low. She was there for me in pretty much everything bad happened to me in the last 5 years. I look up to her as she is a strong woman and endured a lot. I shared my friend R's story to tell people only one thing, "Don't make judgements about people and don't try to rub your judgements on them".

End of optional reading.


PS: I am not supporting prostitution, I just want people to know that behind most of the prostitutes are really sad stories. If you don't believe in R's story, well, you are welcome. Just don't make judgements is all I am asking. And I want people to know "just because you think someone is bad, doesn't give you any right to abuse them in any way".
Congratulations, you survived my thread :fest:.
 
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Kamini, it is not oft that I glance upon articles that are written so well but I've come to understand that you have food mastery over the language. Regardless of the length, from your articles, I see a bold, progressive, intelligent women that you are. Keep going you rock girl!
 
Good to see one girl with guts to share her personal exp & not easy for anyone could do. may be low level sex workers may suffer but high level like business women bed to seal lakhs & crores of contract. To get promotions in company many share their bed, Tv & Movie actress in intial stages till they become popular even colleges students like cam girls also comes in same category, school students publicly offer their virginity to buy an iphone in foreign countries etc... Prostitution is every where & only low level called as prostitute but rest all r called with different name based on the position and wealth if they r in politics in highest positions they will be workshipped by the same people who scolded them earlier.
 
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Supraja I used to write these much lengthy essays when I was in my Intermediate Plus two MEC group for Economics exam.

Supraja you are my best friend and always feel how can I meet such a nice caring open daring darling girl in ZoZo. When I chat with you I always feel I am talking to my childhood friend from real life and that is one of reason I call you as Supraja the name I like so much :heart1: :inlove:
 
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:clapping: Well-done kamini. U r amazing asusual.
Loved the post alot
Congratulations to the lovely pair and wish them all happiness.
Definitely ur effort impacted our thinking towards prostitutes in positive side.
U have given life not only to that lady R but also to thier kids.
At the same time we have to appreciate that old lady who has taken care of those kids.
And Mr J an open minded guy inspite of pressure from his parents and society, took a great decision and given love and life to Mrs R.
 
:clapping: Well-done kamini. U r amazing asusual.
Loved the post alot
Congratulations to the lovely pair and wish them all happiness.
Definitely ur effort impacted our thinking towards prostitutes in positive side.
U have given life not only to that lady R but also to thier kids.
At the same time we have to appreciate that old lady who has taken care of those kids.
And Mr J an open minded guy inspite of pressure from his parents and society, took a great decision and given love and life to Mrs R.
The old lady is no more. She died because of COVID in June. Wish her soul to rest in peace.
 
Have reacted with like :Like: for the time being!
it seems like some wow content seeing the replies of users here:p.
I have to read now . i will lately:Laugh1:
 
That's a gold. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about sex workers. Sure they are humans too and they are pushed by the need of money.

This is an adult chat, people have to keep in mind this is not some cam whore website to buy any girl for your need. This chat is for both male and females adults to find a chatting partner to share your thoughts about life, love, family, friendship and much more.

If a male guy comes to the chat room and calls the other female chatters are whore and brand them as a prostitute of chat, then what makes him when he is in the same boat with hundreds of others. It all just the lack of ideas about society and world, which makes them to talk bullshit about others.

No one should judge female chatters because they are in a adult chat room to have some fun. They are humans too and they have feelings to share with others, and to fulfil their pleasure in need.

This is not just happening in online chat rooms, but throughout the internet and social networks too.


@Kamini24 you are bold and straight forwarded women. Thanks for sharing it in our forum.
 
That's a gold. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about sex workers. Sure they are humans too and they are pushed by the need of money.

This is an adult chat, people have to keep in mind this is not some cam whore website to buy any girl for your need. This chat is for both male and females adults to find a chatting partner to share your thoughts about life, love, family, friendship and much more.

If a male guy comes to the chat room and calls the other female chatters are whore and brand them as a prostitute of chat, then what makes him when he is in the same boat with hundreds of others. It all just the lack of ideas about society and world, which makes them to talk bullshit about others.

No one should judge female chatters because they are in a adult chat room to have some fun. They are humans too and they have feelings to share with others, and to fulfil their pleasure in need.

This is not just happening in online chat rooms, but throughout the internet and social networks too.


@Kamini24 you are bold and straight forwarded women. Thanks for sharing it in our forum.
Let me suggest her the name artical writter of zozo if possible if she is ok give her this title.
 
@Wicked She would like to have the title "Alpha Female/Girl of ZoZo" for which we already placed a request to @Rapunzel just waiting for the reaction score to touch 300
I can see 'The Intellectual '!(Admin has done the needful :p)
M a fast n keen observer lol.
Have a look dk.
She can change as per her taste na.The option would be there may be.
 
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Let me suggest her the name artical writter of zozo if possible if she is ok give her this title.
Nah, I don't think I am worthy of that title, I only started writing articles a few days ago and I didn't have any experience of essay writing or article writing in the past (never wrote one in my life).
 
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