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Holding On to Hope: When Will They Change?

Sometimes we get so caught up in waiting for others to change that we forget our own journey. Maybe growth isn’t about holding on — it’s about letting go and choosing ourselves every time. I think it’s time I start focusing on that too.
 
Sometimes, we wait for people to change, hoping they'll meet us halfway. But as time passes, we realize that change comes from within..

Perhaps it's time to focus on our own growth, rather than waiting for others. What do you thyou

We water others' gardens, forgetting our own roots are drying. Time to nurture ourselves. ✨
Priorities yourself first, coz you born alone you die alone, that's the one thing I've learned from my life
 
Sometimes, we wait for people to change, hoping they'll meet us halfway. But as time passes, we realize that change comes from within..

Perhaps it's time to focus on our own growth, rather than waiting for others. What do you think?
Absolutely... growth is personal. Waiting for someone else to change can feel like holding your breath. But choosing to evolve ourselves — that’s where the real power lies.!
 
If someone care for us they will be back if they don't.....never came back so it's better to be in hope go ahead and find those people who really care ...✨❤️
 
Bad to keep setting yourself up for disappointment like thisss in the hopes that one day they will come back.they may not,Then ur whole life may have been spent yearning for something that was just not be…
Better to let them go.
~focus on building a life of ur dreams for urslf✨

-By my side:Laugh1:.
 
Sometimes, we wait for people to change, hoping they'll meet us halfway. But as time passes, we realize that change comes from within..

Perhaps it's time to focus on our own growth, rather than waiting for others. What do you think?
Intresting note.
I think we should never wait for anyone.They made the choice to dump you.
There is say, "true feelings finds the way back to you" or "it never fades",
These are all pure illusions in reality of a human life. (It can happen only in movies though).
Human nature is basically like a monkey jumping one branch to another :).
Today it wil be you and eventually, be replaced.
It might be painful and disturbing your routine ,but time heals everything and the grab the opportunity to focus back on life.
My perception on every situation is - "Never make the same mistake twice :)"

But live a life where you can replaced but no one can match your pure soul.

Have a nice day.
:angel:
 
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Sometimes, we wait for people to change, hoping they'll meet us halfway. But as time passes, we realize that change comes from within..

Perhaps it's time to focus on our own growth, rather than waiting for others. What do you think?
If they care about you and loves you then you can wait for them but if it's not worthy then don't!! Don't let your hopes loom like a mirage.....Focus on your own growth cuz that's what will make u stronger mentally and physically also.....and even if you choose to wait then don't forget to prioritising urself too......cuz if he matters then You also Matter......
 
If they care about you and loves you then you can wait for them but if it's not worthy then don't!! Don't let your hopes loom like a mirage.....Focus on your own growth cuz that's what will make u stronger mentally and physically also.....and even if you choose to wait then
If they care about you and loves you then you can wait for them but if it's not worthy then don't!! Don't let your hopes loom like a mirage.....Focus on your own growth cuz that's what will make u stronger mentally and physically also.....and even if you choose to wait then don't forget to prioritising urself too......cuz if he matters then You also Matter......
Beautifully said! You're absolutely right – prioritizing self-growth and self-love is essential. Focusing on your own development will make you stronger, and it's crucial to remember that your worth and value come from within.

If someone truly cares about you, they'll prioritize you too. Otherwise, it's time to reevaluate and focus on your own journey. You matter, and that's what counts!
 
If they care about you and loves you then you can wait for them but if it's not worthy then don't!! Don't let your hopes loom like a mirage.....Focus on your own growth cuz that's what will make u stronger mentally and physically also.....and even if you choose to wait then don't forget to prioritising urself too......cuz if he matters then You also Matter...Beautifully said! You're absolutely right – prioritizing self-growth and self-love is essential. Focusing on your own development will make you stronger, and it's crucial to remember that your worth and value come from within.

If someone truly cares about you, they'll prioritize you too. Otherwise, it's time to reevaluate and focus on your own journey. You matter, and that's what counts!

Intresting note.
I think we should never wait for anyone.They made the choice to dump you.
There is say, "true feelings finds the way back to you" or "it never fades",
These are all pure illusions in reality of a human life. (It can happen only in movies though).
Human nature is basically like a monkey jumping one branch to another :).
Today it wil be you and eventually, be replaced.
It might be painful and disturbing your routine ,but time heals everything and the grab the opportunity to focus back on life.
My perception on every situation is - "Never make the same mistake twice :)"

But live a life where you can replaced but no one can match your pure soul.

Have a nice day.
:angel:
Your perspective is so refreshing! You're right; sometimes it's best to move forward and focus on our own lives. The idea that "true feelings find their way back" might be a romantic notion, but reality often tells a different story.
Intresting note.
I think we should never wait for anyone.They made the choice to dump you.
There is say, "true feelings finds the way back to you" or "it never fades",
These are all pure illusions in reality of a human life. (It can happen only in movies though).
Human nature is basically like a monkey jumping one branch to another :).
Today it wil be you and eventually, be replaced.
It might be painful and disturbing your routine ,but time heals everything and the grab the opportunity to focus back on life.
My perception on every situation is - "Never make the same mistake twice :)"

But live a life where you can replaced but no one can match your pure soul.

Have a nice day.
:angel:
Your perspective is so refreshing! You're right; sometimes it's best to move forward and focus on our own lives. The idea that "true feelings find their way back" might be a romantic notion, but reality often tells a different story.
 
Sometimes, we wait for people to change, hoping they'll meet us halfway. But as time passes, we realize that change comes from within..

Perhaps it's time to focus on our own growth, rather than waiting for others. What do you think?
Absolutely agree. Change truly starts from within. Sometimes, waiting only holds us back, but choosing growth for ourselves sets us free. Healing and evolving should never be paused for someone else's journey. ✨
 
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